Words of Thought

Today is a damn tiring day. I have to fight with sleeping bugs during work while trying hard to conc on my report writing. Urgh! I wonder if it comes with age. Lately, whenever i did not have enough sleep, the fatigue accumulates the next day or on end of the work week. Is my health deteriorating?

Yesterday was a meaningful event held at Marina Barrage for families. I am happy to be organising this event for them because families spending quality time together is very important~ 

I pen down my wish for 2013 on the Esplanade Wishing Sphere which is "家人幸福". 

In 2012, i experienced super highs & lows. It was the happiest period of 9 months of my life but it ended up with a big blow for me. I sank to the lowest period of my life too. Despite so, i am thankful for this experience because it made me realised how much i love my family and how deep my family love is for me. It also made me realised i wish to build a family with strong & loving family ties with a soul-mate who we can share our joy and sadness without being judged. 

Looking forward to 2013, it's time for me to hold a brand new life. 

Always love to stroll & enjoy the simple pleasure of the wind & nature..

Simple Happiness Simple Life.. :)

15 Words of Inspiration

Recently when I was reading i-weekly on an interview of 2 celebrities, there were 15 words in the article that impacted me.

这15个字很简单但是感觉真的好有‘力’。。。

* 能忍人所不能忍，必能为人所不能为 *

原本是想把这15个字记录下来，提醒自己要坚强、遇到困难要积极面对。。。却使我想起一件昨天发生，让我超级火大的事情。

一位同事激怒了我。

满讨厌这位同事的EQ。一件需要澄清的小小事情，她无礼的语气彷佛意味着我上辈子欠她似的。最后，她连‘再见’都没说就挂了电话。对！‘她Kap我的电话’！

*ROAR*

这一生，第一次有一种想在心里‘boycott’一个人的感觉。几位同事都劝我别放在心上因为她的人就是这样。最讨厌的是，这已经不是第一次她那么 @&#&^#@%#了。

不说了。我知道再一阵子，我就淡忘这件事了。（虽然我觉得我应该记得，因为我不想再对她表现友善的态度了。。）

真是一个讨厌的人。

这15个字正好可以克制我的坏情绪，让我感觉舒服一点。

不过，我还是觉得她真是一个讨厌的人。V_V

A Beautiful Journey

On every work day, i have to walk 10-15 mins from home to PN Mrt and another 10-15 mins from PL Mrt to my workplace.

Many people have told me:"It's amazing you can travel like this everyday."

Yes, i need to spend about 2.5-3 hrs per day simply on travelling. I must admit it's tough and there are moments which i feel really tired travelling like this.

Instead of pitying myself, i have this thinking:
"Since i can't change the situation, I can change my mindset~"
A very powerful thinking i have derived from working in my current job :)

As i walked out of my flat, i realised that a whole new day started as i walked through the green and clean environment. I appreciated the clean cool air and once in a while, i will lift up my head and enjoy 头上绿意盎然衬托着蓝天白云的景象。

心灵感觉平静。。。

走着走着，

Eh! 他又扶着脚踏车在路边等他的女朋友！
女朋友出现了。她放心的坐上脚踏车的后座，扶着准备踏上路途的他。
 
甜蜜的感觉溢出心底。。。

接着走过体育场，
一群 aunties 风雨不改汇集一起随着音乐跳舞。
有时候她们跳的好像是韵律舞，有时候像民族舞，有时候还带着cowboy hat 跳起牛仔舞！
运动的不只是她们，还有她们身边各式各样的人。有些在跑步，有些在做暖身运动。

我开始有点提起精神了。。

坐在地铁车厢看个书、回个简讯、查阅新闻、睡个小觉。 。 。 。 。
Oh, 目的站到了。

天空比较亮了。

如常地出站，转右，然后走在最喜欢的路线前往公司。

我喜欢这个路线因为有一排绿树与相对的旧商场凝成一股怀旧自然的味道。
时不时一只慵懒的猫出现会让我微微一笑 ^-^

路线延伸到一条凹凸不平、枯叶分散遍地的道路。
不完美中却让我幻想自己回到过去旧时代的道路，蕴藏着历史的旧道路。

喜欢散步，喜欢自然，喜欢宁静，喜欢朴实。。 原来我每天经过的路反而能赋予我提高精神的力量。

庆幸我的工作环境独一无二。=)

我工作的一天就这么开始了。

i like my job cos helpin ppl really makes me happy :-D i have tis great feelin now after visiting my client n seeing how her children study environment is improved! thanks to a kind corporate org..

all her bubbly children were talkin to me wif enthusiasm..i know they are happy to have new furniture n a clean fresh room environment.. if i have e chance to help, i will love to help out too!

hope their family bond will remain strong n their children will grow up n achieve whatever goals they have in life :)

Finally..A normal & happy day!

我佩服他。

很少在工作的领域里让我佩服的‘顾客’。

他用在‘铁窗内’的时间读出一个文凭。。

他在还没离开‘铁窗’之前就有雇主要请他了。。可惜最后没办法做这这份工。。

他没有被不顺的生活打败，反而拿起报纸，在一天之内去了7个地方应征。。

迅速地找到了另一份工作。。

不得不佩服他的态度。。他想要改善生活的决心。

有时候我们会问我们的‘顾客’：“你将来有什么计划？”

我还没问他。。他已经一一列出他一步一步的计划给我听了。

有些人怨天怨地怨别人 就是不怨自己。 同样的两个人但是命运也许会不一样。。 为什么？我发觉态度和想法play their part too。

我祝福他可以早日经济独立、与爱人过着幸福的日子~

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Interesting work environment i am in...
Different people have different mood on different days...

Putting each and everyone of our mood on the stock market and the trend will be 'volatile!'

I respect the fact that everyone has ups and downs.. but sometimes i do wonder that the office will def be a wonderful place if everyone could be cheerful and happy everyday.

The above will definitely not happen in the human world because everyone is so different...

Some are unhappy cos of work and others may be unhappy cos of love.

Some are happy cos they met a good client (like me today).. some may be happy cos they are in love..

No matter what, i hope to keep the way i am now. Do not ever let unhappiness defeat my life.

I always believe there are 1 angel & 1 devil to all matters and it really depends on whom you chose to believe in =)

Even if there are no angel (eg.when my mixer does not work yesterday)... i still chose to look at the funny part of the story (maybe what my mum said is true!) or things happen for a reason (to test test if someone is nice enuf to send my mixer for repair??...to train my arm muscle in whisking??) Hehe...............

Ok, time to rest my brain =P

I feel sorry for this mother

This mother cried while asking me for advice..

A pathetic mother of 2 who is undergoing a divorce..

Once her flat is sold, she does not know where she could stay..

Rental flat is out of the qns because she will gain a profit after sales of her current flat..

Her only choices were to rent a place or to stay with her relatives.
Relatives.... impossible... because she is M'sian and all her relatives are in Malaysia.
which means she will have to rent a place...

She has to work or else her savings will be wiped out soon..

work.. who is going to take care of her children? Her only choice is to place them under the care of a student care centre

Sigh................ the above stories................ i have heard it quite a few times
Everytime, i sympathised with them..

it's hard to face a broken family
moreover w/o a place of your own..
coping alone with dependents....
not to mention emotional stress and loneliness that you have to face.

It's like a battle that you have to fight on your own. 'Be Strong' are the words you have to keep in mind or else what may come next could be depression --> negligence --> children who will suffer

so People.. pls be sure before you form a family... it's not just you.. it involves responsibilities for a lifetime.

A Fun Workout - what have i learnt?

Badminton is fun! I had 2 badminton sessions with my colleagues for the past 2 weeks and strained my arm for both sessions. However, it was a great workout! it's one of the best ways to make lazy bum bum me to exercise more.

We had no net for the first session so for the 2nd session, we stacked 2 piles of chairs, placed them at 2 ends and tied a 'net' in the middle with string.

(This shows how creative human can be to achieve their goal)

I was more alert in the 2nd session than the 1st. Thanks to the existence of a net.
I was also exercising more, stretching myself further, aiming each hit with the right strength so it does not fall out of line. Thanks to the existence a net which creates the scoring system.
Overall, i feel more satisfied with myself. Yes, thanks to the dearest net.

(This shows when a defined goal is set in your life, you will work harder in life)

As there were 5 of us, one person from the losing team will have to exchange position with the scorer. Sadly, i find it harder to keep count of the scores than to play badminton because i have to see if the ball goes undernet, keep counts in my head, analyse a bit and daydream a bit...

(This proves that i cannot multi-task....sobz....)

暴殄天物???

i was making myself comfortable in the sbs bus with 3 bags of stuffs and looked up...

2 guys were standing diagonally in front of me.

Hmm... from their back, 应该长得不错。

one turned to his side..

WA! Handsome sia... (side view)

The other turned his face ard to reply his dear 'side-hand handsome' guy.

WA SET! 2 HANDSOME guys!!

*faint* very rare,hahaha (laughing in my heart)

since they not looking at my direction, i secretly stared at them.

and............ i have a funny feeling... based on their action....... unusual man behavior......

Mr Handsome A was trying to chat with Mr Handsome B. The way he waves his hand while talking to his Mr Handsome B........ hmm............. a tad girly.....

The way Mr Handsome B holds the pole...his left hand with his right hand holding on to the wrist of his left hand looks.............grree...................hmm... carrying a shoulder black bag.... gee......

天啊！if they are what i guessed to be.. wasted... really wasted...

Handsome face..Tick
Great hair...Tick
Clear complexion..Tick
Muscular Biceps...Tick
All physical criteria of a dream guy fulfiled. Shit.. really a waste.

At this very moment, i feel the world is indeed a fair world.

Too bad, the mystery of their liking remains a mystery. =)